Once a cheater.....always a... what...... cheater? Really....? Are people so innately bad at recovery that once they have tasted something so tempting and flat out wrong that it is almost impossible to resist again? To me..I feel.... why cheat? if you're gonna do it..... you might as well break up with that poor fool first....Alas, there are always x-factors. X-factors....those wonderful reasons (or sometimes excuses) people have for justifying their sinful actions. Bad connection....bad communication....bad car even..... every reason under the sun, someone can dish out any rationale to literally absolve them of their wrongdoings. I mean...you're either faithful....or you're not. And in some extreme cases, being faithful can mean more than just resisting physical temptation.
I had a friend once (key word......had) who was on track to marrying his lovely girlfriend of his. And though he had past complications with previous relationships where he had, in fact, cheated with his ex's he seemed to be on the fast lane to becoming a real man by entering the world of matrimony and starting an honest life. I admired his energy and perseverance to solidify his relationship with his girlfriend. and then.... BAM! cheat #6.... or was it #5.... or #6........ whatever the F it was.... I couldn't have even begun to fathom that scenario..... being repeated.....again...... but here we are.....again. And I am left to wonder whether or not someone like my friend would ever cheat again having already cheated once before.... or in this case over 6 times.
Is Tiger really sorry..... for the countless times of infidelity? Can he really get help for his sex addiction? Is he sorry for what he did.... or sorry he was caught.... mofo sounded quite calm and collected giving his apology speech....and I must say I must say..... Oscar worthy performance. Didn't even break a sweat..... on the green and under the sheets! You think....how many more times would he have gone smashing every chica he can get his hands on.....before he thinks to himself...."damn, I'm a douche.... I gotta stop this." I guess the saying goes: "Nike....Just do it.....Tiger Would"
Even after all the dust has settled I do feel, with some regard to those who have made a mistake (because we all make mistakes) that they can truly reform and move on. However, on a triple reversed argument, I HAVE YET TO SEE SUCH REFORM! I've been cheated on. One of my best friends has been cheated on... hell my aunt's been swindled too.... haven't met a cheater gone cheatless. Fill me in........ what do you think about cheaters..... do they really have a threshold before they come clean?..... or are they dirty fo' life!? What do your experiences tell you....... and what does your gut instinct tell you?
how this could pertain to a t-shirt design.... I have no idea.........................but it could!
